So my friend got me into bannerlord, and I have fallen in love with the game. After about 20 hours of non stop restarts, killing my entire party, being captured, and other bullfuckery. I started looking up guides and exploits to help with the early grind. By doing the smithing loop I generated around 500k in wealth, bought a really nice army, and some caravans and started exploring other parts of the game. I decided I should start a family young and essentially bought Eys, the daughter of Dareth (I think I spelled that right? I'll check when I include images later), he's the Ruler of the Vlandians. I then sat in his army for a while as a mercenary until I could become a vassal, and I now have 100 relation with him. We are CONSTANTLY at war, with at least 2 factions. However, everytime we take a city, he and the other nobles vote to give me the city or castle. My character is 26, and level 24, with 14 fiefdoms. 8 castles, and 6 settlements. They're all on fringe territ...