A quick question about courting a lady

Hey,

I tried searching for more information about the maidens and courting, but the information is apparently very limited. I understand the different personalities and all that, but there are a few finer things that I couldn't figure out, so I hope you'll be able to help me with this.

I am currently trying to marry a maiden with a combative/tomboyish personality, Lady Sonadel, daughter of Count Grainwad. I have a good relationship with the Count, so he mentioned his daughter himself, meaning I am allowed to court her. However, while I can already visit her privately, I still have to profess ma admiration, so the entire courting thing really can get started. But when I do so, I lose two relation points with her, probably because of her personality type? At first, at relation 0, she was very cold to me and said something along the lines of "if you will excuse me"... after dedicating a tournament victory to her, I gained 4 relation and now she's a bit more friendly with her response, but I still lose two points. The same at relation 6.

So, my question is, will I always lose two points, no matter what I do, or should I first raise my relation with her even more, until she'll accept me without that?

I know this is really insignificant and hardly worth a very own thread here, still, I'd like to start off with her on the right foot. I guess at this point I'm invested enough, after trying to raise the relation to 4 and then 6, that I want to be sure now.

Thanks!

Submitted June 26, 2017 at 07:06AM by Urnoev http://ift.tt/2tM3Xwn