How do I improve relations with my husband?

After trying out a bit of trading, joined the Western Empire, wandered around as a vassal for a bit before realizing I was 28. I filtered out to all the marriageable candidates and met Eornyx in army. We have 1 kid and 1 castle right now.

As soon as I got married all my relation with my husband dropped and its sitting at -2. Now he won't give me a second kid. My older brother and his wife don't have a kid either, my sister got married off to another clan and my younger brother is still a bebe.

My husband won't give me any quest to up relation, and helping him in battle does nothing. How do I get him to like me?

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