Is this game really hard or do I just suck?

I’ve been playing for about a week now and I’m still getting fucked up and it’s extremely frustrating. It seems like anytime I have a decent amount of people in my party I always get ganged up on by multiple bandits or sea raiders or multiple other lords parties and they kill all my people and take a bunch of my money and gear. I own like 3 properties and can win tournaments no problem but when it comes to the military aspect I can never win. It’s extremely frustrating having to start from scratch over and over again. I’ve checked settings and they’re on the easiest difficulty. Any advice?

Submitted December 24, 2017 at 01:27PM by reddit_lead_to_gold http://ift.tt/2l6g2ZG