How to not get vassals to hate you?

When I become king, and lords come to me to become vassals they always hate me. Usually I get every single lord who shows up in my court. Also I heard that good-natured and upstanding lords are good to have. Why? Why does my vassals hate me whenever I give out a fief?

Submitted April 16, 2019 at 01:39PM by Mattboom35 http://bit.ly/2Gog9uy